ANALOGIES

          

    
31. A Boss And A Leader
30. Trauma Bonding And Authentic Bonding
29. Ego Love And Authentic Love
28. Narcissism And Self-Love
27. Things That Drain Your Energy And Raise Your Energy
26. Confident And Arrogant
25. Mother And Father
24. Busy Leaders And Productive Leaders
23. Busy People And Productive People
22. Critical Thinking And Creative Thinking
21. The Old Covenant And The New Covenant
20. Meddling And Helping
19. Pride And Humility
18. Critical Spirit And Caring Spirit
17. Emotional Immaturity And Emotional Maturity
16. Religion And Gospel
15. Intelligence And Wisdom
14. Teacher And Guru
13. Spiritual Gifts And Talents
12. Spiritual Gifts And Fruit Of The Spirit
11. Love And Lust
10. Live Churches And Dead Churches
9. Unbroken And Broken People
8. Children Learn What They Live
7. Man And God
6. Self-Centered Life And Self-Centered Deeds
5. Man's Way And God's Way
4. Men And Women
3. Winner And Loser
2. Competitors And Innovaters
1. Manager And Leader

 
Ego Love And Authentic Love
 

No. Ego Love Authentic Love
1 I love you based on how you make me feel I love who you are as human being
2 Attempts to fix, control or change Honors flaws, self-expression, + freedom
3 Projects unhealed trauma + insecurities Owns triggers, apologizes, takes responsibility
4 Meet my needs now Mutual need meeting
5 I need you to be a version of self that feels most comfortable for me I support your highest self + work through my own discomfort
6 Keeps score of injustices, has tantrums, makes others walk on egg shells Can have difficult conversations, communicates clearly